Thoughts of the Day ♥

I had a really interesting conversation with a very good friend of mine that I thought I'd share. Basically it was this: she thinks that I should get out and date. To which I responded that I wasn't ready to date because I wasn't finished remaking myself. And I really stand by that statement. Am I proud of how far I've come? - absolutely. Am I confident and optimistic? - you betcha. But the kind of guy that I want or would be interested in, isn't someone who'd necessarily look at me twice yet. I need to be at that point where I'm really walking tall (well, as tall as any 5'4" person can haha) and feeling that sense of achievement. A lot of my girls are serial daters. Some are psychotic about hanging onto the guy they're seeing for fear of being alone. Me? I spent over 6 years concentrating on someone else's wants and needs before my own and ultimately it made me unhappy. This "me time" is a long time coming. Am I opposed to dating? No, not really. But... there's no rush.